Until we choose to put them together, love, sex and relationships are three entirely different and separate things.
You can have sex without love. You can have sex without relationship. You can have sex with love but without relationship. You can have sex with relationship but without love. And you can have sex with relationship and love. All these are valid choices. You can have love without sex. You can have love without relationship. You can have love with relationship but without sex. You can have relationship without love, and you can have relationship without sex. All of these are valid and possible choices.
If any of these combinations trigger you, then you likely have a lack of freedom of Choice regarding them and may wish to clear any self-judgements you have around that.
Not only are these three things different, the way you do love, the way you do sex, and the way you do relationship, will be entirely unique to you. To that end, Kissing Consciousness offers this concept of your three ‘fingerprints’: Your fingerprint of love, your fingerprint of sex, and your fingerprint of relationship, so that you might choose to have Awareness and freedom around all of these three.