“I Can’t Fall in Love with Your False Self!”
If you have nerves and you relate that openly and honestly to the person you’re dating, at least that’s authentic and you’re communicating from Love Consciousness. And maybe your nerves are really excitement in disguise.
Are you trying to date or court someone from your Being, or from your self-judgement? Doing so from your self-judgement is the False Self. Whilst Conscious people might have every compassion for you, and every non-judgement that you do that, the False Self is not something that someone even has the chance to connect with. People can’t authentically fall in love with your Fear Consciousness because it’s a False Self, and so it’s not real. For the other person it’s like being invited to shake hands with a ghost.
Not to worry, though! Whenever we want to return to our True Self and provide the other person with an authentic version of us they can interact with, we can do our usual thing and release our self-judgements. We can also remember The Paradox of Love Consciousness: By having no resistance to being triggered into our False Self we begin the return to being our True Self.
Everywhere where you’ve tried to court and date people from your self-judgement, would you like to let that go?
And would you like to ask your body if it would like to let that go?