“And it will not say goodbye, just like it didn’t say hello.” – The Beautiful South
To be Willing to play the game of authentic relationship without False Self is to accept that the same truth of nature which gives a true love connection can take it away just as instantly. And because it arrived without force, if it is to remain then it remains without force.
Just as it cannot be contrived into authenticity, it cannot be contrived to remain in authenticity. Nor is it Conscious to try.
One day a person may find themselves in love, another day they may wake up and find that the drive is no longer there. Or they feel it’s time to take a different journey. It doesn’t mean anything bad, it’s just the way it is. There may also be grief, which may be healthy. But if we engage in Happiness Projection, then the fact of a relationship’s energy being no longer true is seen as a problem.
Just as ‘Energetic Marriage’ is a separate thing to the paperwork of legal marriage, ‘Energetic Divorce’ is a different thing to legal divorce.
“Energetic ‘Divorce’ is itself inherently painless.” – James Blacker