Before considering the question of how to let things go, we first need to consider whether it’s appropriate to attempt to let something go in a given moment, situation or context.
Whether to Use a Tool or Respect Being
A toothbrush isn’t the right tool to mow your lawn with. A lawnmower is the right tool, but mowing your lawn right now might not be the right thing to do, if, say, the lawn was only mown yesterday, or your spouse is holding a garden party on it.
Similarly, seeking to use tools to let things go without Awareness of whether that’s appropriate in the present context can lead to equally incongruous and ridiculous moments.
The purpose of doing clearings is so that you have more Being to enjoy, not to interrupt Being.
If you are in a state of Love Consciousness, then there’s not necessarily a need to let anything go, and the only reason you might do so is if you want to do ‘Proactive Processing’.
The first principle of Kissing Consciousness is to be aware of when you are in Love Consciousness or Fear Consciousness, so you know whether to use a Consciousness Tool, or to respect your authentic Being and Flow in that moment. The last thing you want to do is interrupt your own Flow because you’ve gotten into the conclusion – the judgement – that every moment requires a clearing tool.